Ronald Reagan is the only person who has ever explained fiscal conservatism well

A post by John Hawkins at Right Wing News caught my eye this week and I was delighted to find he quoted and linked a speech by Ronald Reagan that I had been looking for. In it, Reagan explained how he had turned California’s economy around as governor. It was his “Let them go their way” speech in 1975 to CPAC. That, and the one he gave to Hillsdale College, were influential in my realization during the 2008 presidential campaign that I really believed in fiscal conservatism rather than liberalism. It also helped that I learned during the 2008 campaign that Reagan was an economics major in college — unlike the Republican actor currently in charge of California’s economy.

Here’s where Reagan explained at CPAC how he brought California back from the financial brink:

When I went to Sacramento eight years ago, I had the belief that government was no deep, dark mystery, that it could be operated efficiently by using the same common sense practiced in our everyday life, in our homes, in business and private affairs.

The “lab test” of my theory — California-was pretty messed up after eight years of a road show version of the Great Society. Our first and only briefing came from the outgoing director of finance, who said: “We’re spending $1 million more a day than we’re taking in. I have a golf date. Good luck!” That was the most cheerful news we were to hear for quite some time.

California state government was increasing by about 5,000 new employees a year. We were the welfare capital of the world with 16 percent of the nation’s caseload. Soon, California’s caseload was increasing by 40,000 a month.

We turned to the people themselves for help. Two hundred and fifty experts in the various fields volunteered to serve on task forces at no cost to the taxpayers. They went into every department of state government and came back with 1,800 recommendations on how modern business practices could be used to make government more efficient. We adopted 1,600 of them.

We instituted a policy of “cut, squeeze and trim” and froze the hiring of employees as replacements for retiring employees or others leaving state service.

After a few years of struggling with the professional welfarists, we again turned to the people. First, we obtained another task force and, when the legislature refused to help implement its recommendations, we presented the recommendations to the electorate.

It still took some doing. The legislature insisted our reforms would not work; that the needy would starve in the streets; that the workload would be dumped on the counties; that property taxes would go up and that we’d run up a deficit the first year of $750 million.

That was four years ago. Today, the needy have had an average increase of 43 percent in welfare grants in California, but the taxpayers have saved $2 billion by the caseload not increasing that 40,000 a month. Instead, there are some 400,000 fewer on welfare today than then.

Forty of the state’s 58 counties have reduced property taxes for two years in a row (some for three). That $750-million deficit turned into an $850-million surplus which we returned to the people in a one-time tax rebate. That wasn’t easy. One state senator described that rebate as “an unnecessary expenditure of public funds.”

For more than two decades governments-federal, state, local-have been increasing in size two-and-a-half times faster than the population increase. In the last 10 years they have increased the cost in payroll seven times as fast as the increase in numbers.

We have just turned over to a new administration in Sacramento a government virtually the same size it was eight years ago. With the state’s growth rate, this means that government absorbed a workload increase, in some departments as much as 66 percent.

We also turned over-for the first time in almost a quarter of a century-a balanced budget and a surplus of $500 million. In these eight years just passed, we returned to the people in rebates, tax reductions and bridge toll reductions $5.7 billion. All of this is contrary to the will of those who deplore conservatism and profess to be liberals, yet all of it is pleasing to its citizenry.

Make no mistake, the leadership of the Democratic party is still out of step with the majority of Americans.

Speaker Carl Albert recently was quoted as saying that our problem is “60 percent recession, 30 percent inflation and 10 percent energy.” That makes as much sense as saying two and two make 22.

Without inflation there would be no recession. And unless we curb inflation we can see the end of our society and economic system. The painful fact is we can only halt inflation by undergoing a period of economic dislocation-a recession, if you will.

We can take steps to ease the suffering of some who will be hurt more than others, but if we turn from fighting inflation and adopt a program only to fight recession we are on the road to disaster.

Here are the lines in Reagan’s 1977 speech to Hillsdale College, “What ever happened to free enterprise?,” which had a big impact on me:

The most dangerous myth is the demagoguery that business can be made to pay a larger share, thus relieving the individual. Politicians preaching this are either deliberately dishonest, or economically illiterate, and either one should scare us. Business doesn’t pay taxes, and who better than business to make this message known? Only people pay taxes, and people pay as consumers every tax that is assessed against a business. Begin with the food and fiber raised in the farm, to the ore drilled in a mine, to the oil and gas from out of the ground, whatever it may be — through the processing, through the manufacturing, on out to the retailer’s license. If the tax cannot be included in the price of the product, no one along that line can stay in business.

But if you want to explain it simply, a loaf of bread: If the farmer can’t get enough for his wheat to pay the tax on his farm — the real estate tax — he can’t go on raising wheat. And so when you buy that loaf of bread tomorrow, just take a look: a hundred and fifty one taxes are in that loaf of bread amounting to more than half of the price of bread.

If fiscal conservatism is not prospering as a philosophy for taxing and governing, I think the biggest reason is that no one has ever explained it as well as Reagan.

Robert Stacy McCain vows to kill his gay children on a hill

Robert Stacy McCain has six children, ages five to 19. He has written repeatedly that opposing equal marriage rights for lesbians and gays is a “hill to die on” for social conservatives. I don’t know if any of them are gay. But, then again, neither does he.

Why do social conservatives always forget that at least 12 percent of them HAVE gay children and they are denying equality to THEIR OWN CHILDREN? My 12 percent estimate is based on the estimate that eight percent of any population is lesbian or gay and that those children have two parents, but the two parents may have more than one gay or lesbian child.

Suicide is a leading cause of death for teenagers, especially gay and lesbian teenagers. This does not include the death toll of lesbian and gay teenagers who are thrown out by their parents when their homosexuality is discovered and they die as a result of the complications of homelessness and lack of skills and credentials to get employment that would allow them to live independently.

While Dick and Lynn Cheney support and include their openly lesbian daughter, Mary, and her life partner, and the Bush administration treated Mary and her life partner the same way they would treat a straight married couple, that is NOT how we usually are treated. What happens too often is what Alan Keyes did to his lesbian daughter, Maya. In 2005, after Maya spoke at a Maryland rally about a gay friend who had been thrown out by his parents for being gay and died three years later of starvation, Keyes cut her off financially and evicted her. She was 19. (I haven’t found any recent news of her so I don’t know how she’s doing or whether she was able to attend college.)

So, social conservatives, you may think equal marriage rights is your “hill to die on,” but for quite a lot of you, it is the hill where you have vowed to their faces to kill your gay and lesbian children. The fact that you didn’t know you were condemning your own children to death by your words and actions does not wash their blood from your hands.

Carrie Prejean believes in marriage, just not THAT much

Carrie Prejean, Miss California, speaks against equal marriage rights for gays at the National Press Club on 4/30/2009 at a press conference for the National Organization for Marriage. Photo taken by Cynthia Yockey.
Carrie Prejean, Miss California, speaks against equal marriage rights for gays at the National Press Club on 4/30/2009 at a press conference for the National Organization for Marriage. Photo taken by Cynthia Yockey.

Update: Linked from Hot Air’s Green Room — thank you! — see below.

I took a pleasant jaunt down to the National Press Club in Washington, D.C., yesterday to see Carrie Prejean headline a press conference for the new TV spot against gay marriage by the National Organization for Marriage (NOM). Ms. Prejean is Miss California in the Miss USA pageant system and told pageant judge and celebrity gossip blogger, Perez Hilton, that she opposed gay marriage when he asked her opinion on the topic at the pageant on April 19.

BTW, I think Hilton’s question was entirely fair, since Prop. 8 banning gay marriage in California only months after it had been approved by a court decision earlier in 2008 meant that if Miss California became Miss USA, she was bound to be asked that question in every interview. Whatever, her answer has made her more famous than winning the pageant would have and she has been quick to make the most of her notoriety.

I arrived about five minutes before the press conference, which I expected to be thronged. Judging from the number of press kits available, so did NOM. However, there were only about a dozen reporters — a mix of small-fry like me with a few heavy-hitters like Fox News, which has video; Inside Edition; ABC News and the Washington Times. One guy behind me was from a Latter-Day Saints group; he sat next to a guy from a Catholic group.

Prejean gave prepared remarks, first claiming she was there as a private citizen, but then contradicted herself by asserting that she represented the state of California and the majority opinion in the United States:

I believe very strongly that a marriage is between a man and a woman. It’s a union between a husband and a wife. What’s more that I believe millions of Americans also believe the same thing. I’m representing the state of California as you all know. There was over seven million voters, California voters that have voted on this. So not only was I representing my state but the majority of people in my nation. This vision of marriage is not hateful. It’s not discriminatory. It’s good. Marriage is good. There is something special about unions of husband and wives. Unless we bring men and women together children will not have mothers and fathers. I do not want to raise my own children in a world where this tradition [sic] view of marriage is considered hateful or discriminatory, especially not by my own government.

Prejean also said that NOM wasn’t paying her for her appearance. Except, you know, for all the publicity, which I expect Prejean will do her utmost to turn into cash.

Prejean’s NOM handlers let her answer a few questions. The Inside Edition reporter asked her to comment on the Miss California pageant organization paying for her boob job. She refused and called the question “inappropriate.” (They’re late — Stacy McCain has been on this story for days and has the scoop.)

Because the room was so empty, I had secured the chair directly in front of the podium where Prejean spoke. I did not think Ms. Prejean was going to call on me, so I just spoke up and asked her, “Will you show your support for marriage by dating only ex-gay men?”

She glared and called my question inappropriate, too, although I think it is entirely fair. In fact, I think it would be the basis for a hit reality show. Assuming Ms. Prejean is ever willing to put her moneymaker where her mouth is, supporting marriage-wise.

P.S.

My two favorite beauty pageant movies are Miss Congeniality and Little Miss Sunshine. If you haven’t seen the latter, seriously, watch it for its peerless social commentary on the talent portion of any pageant.

P.P.S.

Also at the press conference, NOM president Maggie Gallagher denounced supporters of gay marriage for calling opponents of gay marriage bigots and liars. It would have helped her cause a little more if she had not then repeated the core messages of NOM’s first spot, “A Gathering Storm,” which can quite fairly and properly be called lies and distortions, as the following video explains:

P.P.P.S.

One of Ms. Gallagher’s claims was that allowing gay marriage would be disruptive to individuals, small businesses and religious groups. I’ll answer that in more detail in the future, but right now I think I can sum up my reply as being, “Maybe — but so what? That’s what CHANGE does — it CHANGES the way we do things. When I was Ms. Prejean’s age (21) in 1974, women were fighting for equal rights in every aspect of life — there were plenty of people lined up against that change, too, with almost exactly the same rationalizations. Well, it turns out most of that change was for the better and 2008 proved it when the candidates in the race for president who were the most qualified both by resume and character were Sarah Palin and Hillary Clinton.

Update, May 1, 2009: Perez Hilton has gotten the NOM TV ad “No Offense” pulled because it uses a short clip from one of his Web videos. Gay blog Good As You is livid — with Perez Hilton.

Update, May 1, 2009: At Hot Air’s Green Room, my dear friend Stacy McCain, who is an indefatigible yenta, poses a question that I WISH I’d thought of.

Update, May 1, 2009: Allahpundit also is in the Green Room trying to terrify people who are on the fence over marriage equality for lesbians and gays that our achieving equality will lead to prosecution for “thought crimes.” First of all — nonsense! Second, I can do him one better. Lesbians and gays are punished and murdered in the U.S. and around the world for a BEING crime. For example, I just saw a clip on CNN saying that you can serve in the U.S. military without being a U.S. citizen and get citizenship. But U.S. citizens like me — and one of my ancestors fought with George Washington at Valley Force — are NOT full citizens because we are barred from serving openly in the military for a BEING crime.

Update, May 1, 2009: GayPatriot has some words of wisdom about Ms. Prejean.

Oh noes!!! I lost my gay agenda!!!

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Gentle readers, with all the talk about Miss California and gay marriage and the gay agenda over the past 10 days, I realized I hadn’t looked at my gay agenda in ages. I thought I’d better dig it out and read it again because I don’t remember it saying anything like what my dear new social conservative friends are saying it says.

Well, I have to tell you, I am just beside myself. I have looked and looked and looked. I cannot find my gay agenda anywhere!!! It’s been 37 years now, but I’m sure the recruiter gave me a copy when I signed up.

I know it’s around here somewhere. Wait! I haven’t checked my make-up drawer! I’ll keep you posted.

You've got to be carefully taught

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From Fox News, 4/20/2009:

When asked by judge Perez Hilton, an openly gay gossip blogger, whether she believed in gay marriage, Miss California, Carrie Prejean, said, “We live in a land where you can choose same-sex marriage or opposite. And you know what, I think in my country, in my family, I think that I believe that a marriage should be between a man and a woman. No offense to anybody out there, but that’s how I was raised.”

Um, no, Ms. Prejean, we do NOT live in land where you can choose same-sex marriage. You flunked current events and therefore you did not deserve the crown.

As for how Ms. Prejean was raised, I was reminded of this song from South Pacific by the Barbra Streisand live concert over the weekend — the singer here is Mandy Patinkin:

Once upon a time, didn’t parents and churches teach that if a girl wore a bikini that meant she was a … ? Darn, I can’t think of the word right now. Never mind, it will come to me.

From South Pacific, music by Richard Rodgers, lyrics by Oscar Hammerstein II:

You’ve got to be taught
To hate and fear
You’ve got to be taught
From year to Year
It’s got to be drummed
in your dear little ear
You’ve got to be carefully taught

You’ve got to be taught
To be afraid
Of people whose eyes
are oddly made
And people whose skin
Is a different shade
You’ve got to be carefully taught

You’ve got to be taught
Before it’s too late
Before you are 6 or 7 or 8
To hate all the people
your relatives hate
You’ve got to be carefully taught

'Symbolism was my life'

Bea Arthur nude, 1991, John Curin, Tate Gallery
Bea Arthur nude, 1991, John Curin, Tate Gallery
Bea Arthur
Bea Arthur

Beloved gay icon Bea Arthur passed away today at the age of 86. She will be missed. I wrote this piece before I looked for photos and I chose one because it is charming and the other because — actually, I’m not up to telling you the most important reason why — I’ll tell you that Margaret would know — but the shock value of a naked Bea Arthur was a distant second. It’s about as close as I ever plan to come to being eligible for Stacy’s Rule 5 Sunday.

My fondest memory of one of Ms. Arthur’s performances was when she played Dorothy Petrillo-Zbornak on The Golden Girls from 1985 to 1992. The episode was about her ex-husband, Stanley, re-appearing in her life, much to her dismay and she recalls what led her to divorce him:

Dorothy: I remember when Stanley told me he was having an affair. It was at least 24 hours before I cut the crotches out of all his slacks.

Blanche: You didn’t!

Dorothy: I was teaching English Lit at the time. Symbolism was my life.

If you were not an English major, then that went “Whoosh” right past you. But, for me, as an English major, the moment I heard it was pure ROFLOL.

And now that I think of it, I also enjoyed her incisive observation on why her slutty housemate, Blanche, was able to have so many love affairs with nary a pang:

Dorothy: Sluts heal quick.

Wisdom for the ages.

It hurts to lose a loved one at any age, no matter how much the death was expected due to advanced age, illness, or both. So I wish blessings for Ms. Arthur’s soul and condolences for her family and loved ones.

Update: GayPatriot is mourning, too.

Update: Eric Golub at Big Hollywood also has a remembrance of Bea Arthur.

Update, 4/30/09: Welcome, astonished readers from The Other McCain!

Because sexual orientation is NOT private

That nice Ed Morrissey over at Hot Air, whom I have met and think is a very sensible man on the whole, has some thoughts about a documentary called Outrage that purports to out closeted gay Republicans, which was brought to his attention by the perpetually outraged Rick Moran, who spotted a post about it at Towleroad, a blog for gay men (which is so unreadable due to its chic grey-type-on-black-background that it constitutes a very minor threat to the republic — although suddenly I’m very curious about what brought Moran there).

I gather both Ed and Rick think the purpose of the documentary is to shame the individuals profiled in particular and embarrass Republicans and conservatives in general.

Well, yes and no.

I think it’s really a healthy declaration on the part of the lesbian and gay community that there are some vipers we will no longer shelter in our bosom. What with them being poisonous, and all.

This is really pissing off the vipers and their claques and dupes. They are slithering all over everywhere looking for pits to hiss in.

Closeted gays and lesbians generally truly are dangerous vipers to open gays and lesbians wherever we encounter them. When my late life partner of over 20  years, Margaret Ardussi, was dying, two of the three medical professionals who were vicious to us were women who tripped my gaydar. One was as conspicuously a dyke as it is possible to be without wearing explicit slogans. I think they were cruel as part of their “Being mean to this couple proves I’m not a lesbian” act. (The third was a nurse who was just a garden-variety narcissist who felt the need to shame and put down everyone in eyesight. I got someone else assigned in her place.) In contrast, straight people were very respectful of our relationship once they knew we were a couple and quite obviously touched by our devotion to one another.

Oh, and just so you know, the more anti-gay you are, the more certain most homosexuals become that you are putting on an act to keep the world from finding out that you are gay. This certainty is based on the extraordinarily high correlation we have observed between anti-gay behavior and getting caught in, well, gay behavior.

The example that looms largest in my mind is former Congressman Robert Bauman, a Republican, whose defeat I covered on election night from the party for Democrat Roy Dyson. Well, I was a reporter for the Harford Democrat, and Bauman had been caught soliciting sex from a teenage boy during the campaign, so it only stands to reason I was assigned to be at Dyson’s party rather than the one for the incumbent, Bauman. As a member of Congress, Bauman was vehemently anti-gay as part of his cover by day, but cruised Capitol Hill gay bars at night — which Bauman described in detail later in his autobiography. The anti-outing ethic of the time allowed him to get away with this.

The demise of this ethic is about halting outrageous exploitation and abuse of the lesbian and gay community.

The fact that people gays don’t like are humiliated by this is icing on the cake.

Also, there’s a point Ed and Rick raise that I would like to clear up. I think there is a longstanding misunderstanding about what gays and lesbians mean by, “My sexual orientation is my private business.”

We mean, “You don’t get a vote on whether or not I’m gay.”

We do NOT mean, “We have vowed silence about every aspect of our sex lives and will do our utmost to conceal from you that we are homosexual.”

We have NOT vowed silence or concealment because sexual orientation is NOT private.

Heterosexuals are shoving their sex lives in our faces every minute of every day. Every sentence with any of the following words is an announcement about your sex lives: “My girlfriend/fiancee/wife, my boyfriend/fiance/husband, my daughter/son/child/children, my date, my engagement, my wedding, my marriage, my blah blah blah blah.” Your engagement and wedding rings announce your sex lives. “Mrs.” in front of a woman’s name announces her sex life. You never EVER shut up about your sex lives.

Yet somehow, when YOU do it, you don’t think it’s sexual. When WE do it, it is. What’s up with THAT?

There’s another aspect to the belief that homosexuals alone are supposed to hide every possible detail of our lives that would reveal our sexual orientation. When you have to hide that much of who you are, it is enormously alienating to other people. That’s because one of the easiest ways to connect to another person is to ask them about the people they love — if they are dating, engaged or married, and/or have children. Lesbians and gays who are hiding their sexual orientation are forced to fend off these efforts at connection, or to poison the connection by lying. That’s just wrong.

Whether or not they are aware of doing this, most people have their antennae up all the time sensing everything they can about the people around them, including their sexual orientation. This is another way that sexual orientation is never private. Being forced to conceal every aspect of such a fundamental part of your being, which people figure out anyway, is horribly destructive and painful. That so many lesbians and gays still feel they must do this is what is an outrage.

P.S.

I do think Outrage should have outed Democrats, too, in addition to former New York mayor Ed Koch. For example, in the early 1980’s when I was a reporter, another Maryland member of Congress was in a scandal after returning from some feminist conference or other with a woman from Australia who drove a number of her staff members to resign. I definitely thought then that she was a lesbian, as did the politicians I spoke with at the time, all Democrats. I think anyone in the state who hadn’t figured it out before did then. So in 1986 when Linda Chavez ran against her for Senate and tried accusing her of being a lesbian, due to this woman’s popularity, the nearly universal response Chavez got was, “Shut up! We already know and we’re fine with it! Now go away!” That woman is Sen. Barbara Mikulski (D, Maryland). More details are here and here. Mikulski is the poster politician for the benefits of outing the closeted.

Ageless beauty teleseminars April 25 and May 9

I first met Nancy Lonsdorf when she was a medical student at Johns Hopkins University in the 1970’s. We were part of a small group who practiced the yogic flying technique of the TM-Sidhi program at the Transcendendental Meditation Center in Pikesville, Maryland, near Baltimore.

Now she is Dr. Lonsdorf and she has spent most of her medical career as an expert in Maharishi Ayur-Veda, which is the revived form of ayur-veda, the traditional medical system of India. She is an extraordinarily brilliant and gifted physician. When she had her practice in Washington, D.C. and Margaret and I saw her, I always thought that she brought the best of both Western medicine and Maharishi Ayur-Veda to bear on every medical problem she considered.

Margaret — my late life partner — was with me for one of my appointments with Dr. Lonsdorf in the 1980’s when Dr. Lonsdorf was taking my medical history and asked me whether or not I ever had PMS. Now, you have to understand that Dr. Lonsdorf already had taken my pulse using the ayurvedic technique for evaluating very precisely what imbalances you are experiencing. That means she knew the answer to that question perfectly well. She wanted to know if I knew it. However, I was unwilling to admit to PMS.

Consequently, after staring at me intently for a few moments, Dr. Lonsdorf swung her gaze to Margaret and asked, “Well, does she?”

Margaret said, “Yes!” a little too fast for my taste, and added a vigorous nod.

Whereupon Dr. Lonsdorf turned backed to me and again fixed me with her gaze and said with a dry smile, “I think I’m going to go with the more objective observation.”

I should add that ayurvedic management of those symptoms very greatly improved my life and well-being.

Now Dr. Lonsdorf practices in Fairfield, Iowa, so I love it that she is using teleseminars to give people wider access to her knowledge. You will definitely get more than your money’s worth from her seminars on April 25 and May 9 (both at 9 am PDT/12 noon EDT) on “How To Stay Young, Healthy and Beautiful with Ageless Beauty Detox.” To get more information and register, go here. If the times are not convenient for you, the registration price includes downloadable recordings of the talks, which are scheduled for 70 minutes each, so you can still hear them.

What SHE said

No, no, no — not Miss California, whose remarks opposing gay marriage were not all that polite after they were translated into all their death-dealing ramifications for the lives of lesbians and gays. It is the lesbians and gays who understood that translation who have gotten all snippy this week.

I mean libertarian lesbian blogger and recovering lawyer, Becky C., who is Just a Girl in Short Shorts Talking about Whatever, what SHE said today about “The Essential Republican Gay Strategy”:

I don’t want to argue the ideological case here, but suffice it to say, from a strategic political standpoint, the Republican Party is toast if they don’t make some moves toward being the Gay Old Party. Its not that they need the votes of gays and lesbians, they are a pretty small minority-it is what it says about the Party to Americans. If they wish to embrace the cause of libertarian individualism-they can not remain stuck on the idea that the government should continue to treat gays and lesbians as second class citizens.

The GOP is at the same type of crossroads the Democrats were at in the late sixties and early seventies. Traditionally African-Americans identified with the party of Lincoln. The segregated South was solid Democratic. However, with the civil rights movement, the Dixiecrats became a huge embarrassment to the party.

Eventually the Segregationists were booted out. The Democratic Party lost the Southern State portion of their traditional coalition, but won over the majority of African-Americans-and more importantly gained credibility by doing the right thing. The Republicans took in the Dixiecrats, with the disingenuous canard that states’ rights trumped the individual rights of Black Southerners.

There’s more at her blog that is very worthwhile. If you find grey type on a black background to be uncomfortable to read, go to “View” on your browser and look for the command to zoom in. Zoom until the type is legible for you.

Oh, and don’t be put off by Blogger forcing you to swear you are over 18 and won’t be offended by adult content. Becky is an aggressive user of dear Stacy’s Rule 5 on “How to Get a Million Hits in Year,” which says one should post the occasional hot photo or illustration. Becky’s hot illustrations are in good taste, but not in the least occasional and probably not all that “Safe for Work.”

Becky’s libertarian hard work and mad blogger skillz have earned her over two million hits on her blog. I have to admit, when I started this blog in January, I thought hits could be translated into money. However, I stand corrected and have to get busy figuring out a new plan to get people to pay money for my writing.

Update: Dear Little Miss Attila here.

Update: My thanks to Afrocity for mentioning this blog with a link in her comment here at The Confluence on a post that included the following:

Well, my Public School did nothing when four different students from my graduating class committed suicide. Three boys and one girl, two of them were harassed so relentlessly with anti-gay slurs that parents are now trying to force my (former) High School to increase funding for a better anti-bullying program with a lawsuit (our current one was aimed at children in elementary schools. Obviously ineffective.) The father was quoted in an ABC news article that I have on file as saying that it’s a shame he had to use a lawsuit to get my school to pay attention to it’s “problem”, but it just struck him as strange that they could spend a million dollars on a new football field, but couldn’t bother to increase funding for student harassment prevention. Particularly since violent fights broke out in my school on an almost monthly basis and were something of a spectator sport.

Those terrible events happened when I was a Junior. The girl that killed herself was a Lesbian, and also personally deeply Religious. I cared about her very much. She had been a close friend of mine since we were eight years old, and there isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t miss her and think of her.